Welcome to the site and congrats on your purchase! The F in Matador Red is a stunning car, nice choice. Seems like you have a nice list of mods to begin with although I would be cautious when using spacers on the F.
I don't think I've seen anyone with the black wheels finished black, it would be interesting to see though! I have my room CF wrapped and others have painted their's black, I don't think anyone with a red F though, might want to do a search for some pics. The stock wheels are stunning, I'd like to see them in black, they definitely wouldn't show the massive amounts of break dust (the stock wheels don't show it too bad either).
How to post a pic, when you click reply on the bottom and are typing text, there should be a little picture frame with mountains in it, click on it and paste the picture URL in there...use a site like photobucket.com to upload your pictures to and get a URL from. Good luck