DBA (Disc Brakes Australia) makes very good rotors. I asked them about ISF rotors from future owner point of view and they were not making them, but it has been a while, might be worth to check with them.
StopTech and AP Racing are 2 other big names in brakes.
I would carefully consider ceramic pads, surely they make a lot less dust, but they also don't bite as hard.
I tried the Hawk ceramic pad vs. Hawk HPS pads on my current vehicle, it's HPS all the way. They will squeal after a while, but only under certain conditions.
Slotted rotors are another thing to consider vs. cross drilled. I had a neighbor with a Dinan S3-R (that's a supercharged E46, fully built) who went with the Brembo GT package once, and said the rotors cracked. (mind you, he drove the car daily at some very serious speeds)
Lastly, If you really love your wheels, take them off once a year and detail them by hand.
(and also the wheel wells)